nsfw-sin:

hhgggx:

hhgggx:

listen idk what’s so difficult to grasp about bdsm

i’m a sane, rational adult. i have a full-time job, i do laundry, sometimes i eat a vegetable. and occasionally i just want to get the shit beat out of me. it’s not that hard to understand

#SAME#its enjoying pain in a controlled safe environment#or enjoying control in a safe environment#like people go to scary movies and do martial arts#we ride rollercoasters and eat spicy food for fun#whats so different about enjoying pain as long as theres that underlying safety?#after a scary movie is over we can relax because we had fun and we know that nobody wants to actually hurt us (via @nsfw-sin)

ye i mean like i have a very stressful job and i’m tired a lot and sometimes i want to give that control over to someone else for a little bit??? pain isn’t always bad. and it’s not just pain that feels “good,” per se– it’s the adrenaline rush after, and the aftercare, and the knowledge that it will stop the second you need it to. in a true respect-based bdsm relationship, the sub has total power over the scene because they know that their dom is acting according to the limits they’ve established and discussed thoroughly beforehand. 

it’s just as much a thrill as buckling into a rollercoaster or bungee jumping. and bdsm isn’t always sexual, either. sometimes you just feel like you need to be restrained, and then you do nothing but cuddle and watch parks and rec with the addition of some rope. it’s p chill, dude

exactly. i feel like a lot of what submissives like about bdsm is that it can stop whenever they want it to. it’s a fully, constantly consensual experience, so they can actually mentally relax into whatever their chosen activity is. no worries, no stress, just the reassurance and excitement of the play. like, for me personally, it’s cathartic and exciting to be able to get pain when i want it, not just as a random traumatic experience. the entire practice is founded on safety and control on both sides.

i hate that lots of people shit on bdsm, but i can’t blame the uninformed public for their misconceptions when there are certain people making dangerous misconceptions into movies, and when predators take advantage of community members on the regular. i do, however, think there needs to be more general public knowledge of what bdsm should be to combat the people taking advantage of misinformation.

grassfire:

and look, hey, i try to avoid the discourse as much as possible because as an intellectual exercise it’s tantamount to jacking off into the void, but there’s something about this particular combination of taking all the arguments, issues, and scholarly work that has been done by women examining the commercial porn industry, then doing a lazy surface level reading and a few word swaps to use it as a prop to claim that women en masse are doing irreversible harm to young gay men is just… 

i’m a pretty zen guy these days. i don’t get angry much, if ever. but god, i hate this mlm fetishisation discourse so much. it’s spoilt and insular and built on a foundation of misogyny and caulked with some savage homophobia against anyone who doesn’t fall into lockstep. 

it’s not the first time the slashcourse has tried this line of thinking (the actions of women do great harm to this group of men according to a conveniently fluid and ever-changing rubrick of what sexual and/or romantic acts are allowed), but this is the first time i’ve seen this horseshit lacquered up with a glossy veneer of social justice and it bugs the hell out of me.

you should absolutely question, examine and get to the heart of homophobia when you encounter it. you should call into question homophobic acts and material when you encounter it. no doubt, no issue. but if you’re measuring homophobia by setting an impossible lofty standard of what you consider allowable content and going ‘anything better than this sky high unobtainable goal is allowed but anything under this is fetishization and deliberately harming gay and bi men, therefore i have carte blanche to start the war drums’ then that’s just a) devaluing the definition of homophobia and its impact as a serious concept, and b) stacking the deck in order to give you an excuse to yell at people, and by ‘people’ i mean ‘women’.

it’s so much effort, so much anger, so much stupid pointless effort wasted on something with .000000001% societal impact when like… the lesbian porn industry is right there. real people, yuri anime, whatever; there’s a billion issues that deal with actual measurable effects of the commodification of lesbians and conveniently enough there’s a never-ending pile of homophobic objectification to wade through right there. use your anger on something useful for a change, y’know? gay fanfiction doesn’t mean diddlyshit.

anyway. that’s quite enough of this. i have a quest bar to eat and a cat to pat.

littleststarfighter:

‘How the mighty have fallen. So this is the great general? Not so
mighty now he’s imprisoned. What on earth is he draped in?’

‘It’s said to belong to one of the Knights of Ren.’

‘Truly? Why has no one taken it from him?.’

‘Good luck with that.’

‘Why? He’s nothing but a beaten slip of a man.’

‘It’s not his blood he’s wearing.’

junkingaround:

Thank you guys so much! I really like drawing Roadhog and Junkrat (If you wonder why I draw them the way I do… it’s because I draw them from memory which isn’t 100% accurate lol), and I’m really into Overwatch.

I don’t have a NSFW blog. I’m pretty new/lazy so this is my only blog.

I also don’t really draw a lot of porn haha…. I’m kind of a prude when it comes to drawing it. I also like to focus more on comfort things or looking more into relationships.

BUT Here is my attempt to make something NSFW! lol I tried….

TopRat because we know who is really on top.